As I type out “36 weeks” I am in shock that I am this close to the end of this pregnancy! I wouldn’t say it’s flown by, but this whole I-could-pretty-much-go-into-labor-any-day-now thing really crept up on me.
No picture today – yet! We had our friend Anna Sparks take maternity photos today , so you’ll have to wait till we get a pic from her to see this week’s bump [updated] and here is one in the style of my weekly photo, only much more professional.
I feel mentally prepared (I think) to welcome our baby into this world, but there are still a few things that need to happen before that day arrives:
- Receive/set up bassinet that my cousin is sending us (or buy Pack ‘n’ Play, which I’m going to wait till after our final shower on Tuesday to buy with our registry completion coupon)
- Set up appointment with pediatrician (we have one recommended by our neighbor, but need to meet him and do whatever you do to officially become a patient)
- Get new tubes for breast pump (after the great used breast pump debate, I never updated you on my decision. Basically, my friend Michelle gave me her Medela Pump In Style. I am cool with it since after changing out the tubes and everything there is really nothing else that touches the milk. And I know who it’s coming from, so there’s no weirdness with that. And it’s free – thank you, Michelle.)
- Wash baby clothes/blankets/etc.
- Install car seat and have it safety checked.
- Call the company that handles unpaid leave for me at work and officialize my maternity leave.
There are also some things that aren’t absolutely crucial, but I would really like to get done:
- Set up crib
- Finish organizing/arranging/decorating nursery
- Purchase glider for nursery
- Cash in gift certificates for prenatal massage (from Peter as an early Christmas gift) and pedicure (shower gift from my friend Litzy). They sound sooo good right now, but I just need to find the time!
- Buy all the miscellaneous baby items we still need (this also involves figuring out what those items are…)
Yeah, life with the bump is not getting any easier. Sleep is tough. Rolling over is tough. Getting up after sitting for a while is painful.
My feet are very swollen and at times it feels like I am walking on water balloons that could burst at any moment if I bend them the wrong way.
Baby still likes that right rib, only he/she is getting bigger and stronger and sometimes putting an undue amount of pressure on it.
Most people are really sweet to me and tell me I am one of those women who only gains weight in my belly when pregnant. For the most part, I think that’s true (and I feel really lucky), but it’s kind of the entire mid-section that’s bigger, not just the bump. One woman in the cafeteria at work (who I think is the same woman who made the weird comment I mentioned in this post) told me she can tell I’m nearing the end because my face is starting to fill out. I don’t know how she would have any grasp on that since I don’t know her, but I kind of have to laugh at the thought that she might be the only person being honest with me. I think my face has filled out a bit, but perhaps not noticeably to others.
And again I feel lucky, because I’ve only really gotten two weird/borderline rude comments over the past 8 months, and both were from the same woman.
In other news…
My co-workers threw me a lovely shower at work on Thursday. This was my only shower that involved animal masks. Which is an awesome addition to any party, in my book.
(Giraffe and pup, a.k.a. me being tall and Jackie being… an attack dog)
(Elephant and bear, a.k.a me smiling even though my trunk hides it and Enrique smiling because that’s what you do when you’re in a bear mask)
(Zebra and lion, a.k.a. Nancy looking cute and my hair threatening to turn into a full-on mane)
There were many more mask photos, just not taken on my camera. I think I wore nearly all of the maybe 15 masks at some point.
(Cake design inspired by this very blog)
(Lots of yummy homemade food)
(Some of the ladies in my department)
It was so sweet, and I was once again taken aback by the generosity and love poured out from the people in my life.
On a much more serious note
Another very busy week ahead. As overwhelming as life feels for me right now though, I would like to ask for prayers for my friend Michelle (mentioned above, who gave me her breast pump), who will be having a double mastectomy this Wednesday. Michelle found out she had inflammatory breast cancer a few days before her 30th birthday and the very same day I went to the doctor and took my official pregnancy test (we actually go to the same doctor). It’s crazy to think that as long as I’ve been consumed by this baby growing inside me, she has been consumed by cancer treatments and all the fear and unknown that comes with that. Her strength and trust in the Lord over this time has been a constant reminder to me that no matter the issue, large or small, God is in control. It has helped me put things in perspective when my problems were the center of my world and helped me realize that it’s God who should be at the center. So please pray for a successful surgery and recovery, no more traces of cancer and strength and comfort for Michelle and her family this week.